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By the time I was sixteen, I gave up any beauty ritual that bored me.

Anything that I was told I had to do because I was a girl was anathema.

If you look at the top of the page under my name, you’ll see two short sentences: Understand Men. I don’t think it’s a stretch to say that if men understood women, they’d do better with women.

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It was as if my lips and clit had been hiding from me. And I could see in my boyfriend’s face that he thought so, too. I learned that a freshly shaved crotch is a fantastically sensitive crotch.

I also found that it’s nice to give head without feeling like you’re flossing.

But whatever the state of my hair, I don’t keep it that way because of porn, or celebrities, or because I’m enslaved to dominant culture, or following the demands of a counterculture.

My pubic hair is always about my own style and comfort, at every length.

We’re both nervous, and more than a little turned on. When I was young, I felt strongly that only women who were brainwashed by the patriarchy shaved their ladybits.

As a teenager, my body hair was a clear demarcation of self-determination.My college boyfriend and I moved in together when we graduated, and we reveled in our anti-establishment lifestyle.We had met in a vegetarian co-op, played in a punk band together, rode bikes, shared flannel shirts.Living in opposition to the status quo was, well, our status quo.One night, snuggled up in our mattress on the floor, we watched some porn together. I don’t really buy the whole “it makes them look like little girls” thing.My sweet, shy, recovering Catholic boyfriend was asking for something he really wanted, that really turned him on. And that was how I ended up in our windowless bathroom, watching him groom me, as my precious bush fell in little clumps to the blue bathmat.

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